How many a man has dated a new era in his life from the reading of a book. … The at present unutterable things we may find somewhere uttered. These same questions that disturb and puzzle and confound us have in their turn occurred to all the wise men; not one has been omitted; and each has answered them, according to his ability, by his words and his life.
Henry David Thoreau
Just finished Napolean Hill. Paula asked in acting class how you would get someone to ask how you are. You ask them how they are. The golden rule at work.